Hi! New to reddit here, and I'm also looking for some butterflies. I am 41, in the mountain time area, and I stay at home, taking care of my husband. My husband and I are in love with each other, but there is no passion, mostly due to medical reasons.

I understand what you mean by it feels like spending time with a roommate, I honestly wish it weren't like this. I too, have had what I believed to be an online romance, but for various reasons it didn't work out.

Really looking for someone who sparks my interest, who likes to have chats about all things, not just sex. I want to get to know who I am talking to on the other side of the monitor I stare at, way too often, if I'm honest.

I enjoy all kinds of things. I do spend most of my free time on the computer, reading, watching movies, etc. Been a bit of chatter, since 1994 or so when telnet was all the craze in college and chat rooms were a dime a dozen. Sometimes I wish it'd go back to that, when I'm feeling nostalgic.

As far as sexual things, I'm very open to pretty much everything, and am wanting/needing someone who wants to explore with me. At this point, I'm looking for something online, in the future, who knows.

Hope you are having a lovely night!