Hello- Indian woman who once was married to an American man. I regret it, I actually wish I married an Indian guy that is from America like I am, and has lived on his own a bit. Those are the best matches for me. The American guy I was married to unveiled a layer of racism and misogyny as soon as we took our vows. He was completely disrespectful and obsessed with separate bank accounts.

With Indian men they expect to provide financially, even if you have your own job. You have full access to their account as long as you promise to be a good wife and good mother to the kids.

Indian women think the grass is greener, and there is an element of self hatred and they go ga-ga for white guys. This was something I regret everyday and wish I was matchmaked by aunties that saw the guy grow up and vet him to make sure he wouldn't be abusive.