literally no one is saying you shouldn't have kids.

you started this conversation talking about a population cap on earth and why not having kids is a good idea.

they immediately ask why I don't want them and push me to still have them.

because having children is normal and its a hardwired preference in people. as we have already covered.

please, show me a single person, a single article that supports these outrageous claims.

again - im not here to do your homework. if you want to read these things you can. just to make sure you cant keep playing dumb i googled "why you shouldnt have kids" and saw articles from vice, huffpo, business insider, the atlantic etc and the articles were from the years '17, '14 and a few others. i also googled "moral reason to not have a baby" and got AGAIN huffpo, newyorker, scientific american, and others with years ranging from 2017 all the way back to 2007. all of those results were on the first page of each. none of this is hidden.