A man deciding to strike up a conversation with you, a woman because he finds you attractive is not "harassment". Get over yourself.

While I agree with this to some extent, can't we agree that your list of appropriate places isn't a very long one compared to inappropriate places? I don't go to bars. Don't drink, been sober for 3 years now. Don't go to parties either. I'm 30 and let me just say that while I am not upset or complaining by any means i will just say that it is not easy to meet women if you don't do these things.

Having said that, there are other options. I know this and have looked into them. My options from dating apps usually range from we are going to club name. You want to join us? To I am going to get the kids in bed an hour early tonight if you want to come over and have some wine after I do? I understand it's a social lubricant, but what places would you deem appropriate that don't involve alcohol?

Because right now it looks like Bar/Party - Cool. Everywhere else - Creep.

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