We would be pissed if you left marks, or even got that rough to leave marks in the middle of play without fore warning. She may have let it go and just accepted it as her fate and pushed through and he thought she was fine until they got in the car, and she told him how rough you got and broke down.

If they are a newer couple, new couples have a hard time stopping guys when they get out of control or push to the edge of the limits, especially women.

It is more than just asking if she is fine, you also have to feel that she is into it and actually enjoying, encouraging, and reciprocating. I personally would have bounced your ass out in the middle of play and told you to cut the bullshit and go beat up on your own wife.