[Married Christians, Dirty Talk] What words do you use when having sex with your spouse?

There is actually a great deal of debate on what is consider bad words. Truth is, most words considered obscenities are simply words used by those considered to be the lower classes by Royalty and Nobles long ago. It was seen as slang beneath people of "means and good breeding." Most of it today is simply "because that's how we have always done it," lack of sound exegesis, and people still trying to uppity.

The Bible really only deals with "corrupt" language. Many people, myself included, interpret this to mean how you talk to people, whether you are dealing honestly with people, etc., and not the words you choose to use. A great deal of modern Bible interpretation is seen through a white, European, context. Illustrated by the fact that even now Jesus is usually depicted as a blue eyed, blond haired, "hotty." People don't like to remember that Jesus was a Jew, and the Bible is a Jewish book, written by Jews, mostly for Jews.

I try to not cuss like a sailor, but I do. I watch my mouth around children and others who would be overly offended, right or wrong. My wife never cusses, until we are in bed.

For the record, I am an active Southern Baptist Missionary/Pastor. Some of us do try to do it right.

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