I'm thinking of going 100% supplication blue pill bitch until she leaves, making her think that her method coerced me into submission.
No, that is certainly not the answer, view it more as being 'pro her'. Playing nice, entertaining her ideas, whatever you can do to keep her from snooping into your shit and recognizing you're building the ship that's going to launch yourself and your daughter out of her stratosphere of control.
Listen, the fact that you wrote It wouldn't take more than going out at night without telling her. Then I position myself under a camera, make sure I have the back-up 100% dialed in and hope the final altercation isn't fatal. A small beating is totally worth full custody and supervised visits. shows your head isn't there yet.
Full on Machiavellian means you don't write it, even on here because it can be traced, you just do it. You never tell anyone you did it, caused it, etc. it just happens.
you need to think more like a women, as counter intuitive as that is, but the way it just happened flows from their lips, it has to flow from your's.
Delete that comment before it is found and used as proof you instigated the issue, then move forward the way I said. total sociopathic manipulation, necessary for you and your daughter.
No emotion, just calculated direct, specific behavior.