If she was having sex just fine 3 months ago and now isn't having sex and all that's changed is a wedding then obviously it is something wrong with her.

No one is out here saying to "give me blowjobs weekly and ill be happy". What everyone is saying is why do women feel it's totally normal and fine to immediately lose all desire for sex once they are married? Why, when guys bring this up, do they immediately resort to "it's be because the man is doing something wrong" and not them?

Guys are being reasonable. They're talking with their loved ones about it. They're willing to take it slower and so on in the hopes that the woman will resort back to her pre-married self.

I don't know why it's so hard for women to admit they have a problem. That the problem they have can only be solved by them taking action and do something.

Most women who see this problem do the following:

Exercise, diet, find more alone time(Treat yo self), go on romantic dates, plan to wear nice and sexy clothes, go on vacations, etc.

Those are the answers women need to say. Not "uh idk, it's my husbands fault cuz.. he wants sex and I no like it :( why can't he just be fine with never having sex ever again :( "

So it would be nice to hear from women who have went through these type of events describe what steps they(women) took in order to come back from never wanting sex.