Married SDs, do you still enjoy your wife's company?

Not really. I used to try to engage with her more. Now, I try to be civil, but don't even want to give or receive affection from her. I used to unilaterally initiate affection, but I stopped doing that once I was in a stable SR. I had forgotten what it was like to have some touch me and enjoy being touched. I just don't see any point in trying to be affectionate with her any longer. Having touched her in months, stopped wearing my ring and she hasn't said a word.

We co-parent. She devotes all of her energy into being a mother. I focus on being a good father, work and planning fun things to do with my SB, who is quickly turning into a SGF.

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