Massive crush on my closest friend

Realistically speaking, what are the chances of that, given that nothing has happened already? How many times has it happened to you, and how many times hasn't it happened? I've confessed my feelings to around 6 people I think, none of them felt the same way. I have, however, multiple times just had it happen on it's own, suddenly you're just kissing. I can see it happen in a situation where neither party is doing anything at all to express attraction though. But in my experience it's best to just show attraction exponentially, if they aren't following you then it's probably not there. Better than going from 0 to 100, potentially overwhelming the other person, who might not be head over heels, but rather just have a crush/interest

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