I was masturbating on a kind of dodgy site, and I got spammed on instagram, this user probably got into my laptops camera with the website and took a video of me masturbating (Im 13), the user threathened to send the vid to all my contacts on insta if I didnt send 600$. What should I do?

This is coming from someone who was threatened for money by scumbags like the person you’re dealing with 3 months ago. One thing you should never ever ever ever do is give them money. No matter what bro.

If you give them money, they will realize you’re an easy target with money and demand more in the future. The best thing you can do is screenshot everything they’ve said, report it to Mexico’s equivalent of the US FBI and tell all your friends to not open the video if they send it to them.

There’s not much else you can do beyond that except for this and this is the best thing for you to do for yourself. Take a deep deep breathe and tell yourself will be okay. They have video evidence of you doing something completely natural for a young boy like yourself to be doing at your age but it’s okay. They don’t have your address, they aren’t threatening you or your physically and it will only cause embarrassment if you let it embarrass you. Accept what happened tell yourself to move on. I’m 24 years old and I was caught by virtual peeping toms while I was masturbating on my laptop.

They threatened me with my Facebook account and I told them to kick sand and I posted everything that happened to me on my Facebook page. Now those assholes have nothing against me and I feel better for it. Yes your friends will joke about it with you and bullies may use it against you to hurt you but your real friends and real family will help you get through the emotional trauma you’re going through. Just don’t let these assholes take your (parents?) money and block them.

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