All the work is worth it. The anticipation and sexual tension alone is worth it. The build up of chemicals in the brain and when it finally happens are just orgasmic. I cum way harder when a woman jerks me off. The touch of someone else is just nothing you can replicate yourself. Ever tried having your head scratched by someone with long nails? Now try it on yourself and its just not the same feeling. This is the same when another person grabs your junk.

I love being with a woman. Especially for the first time. Its such a new experience and it makes me feel young again. And alive! Its exciting yet nerve-racking all at the same time. It gets the heart pumping!

When im alone watching porn and rub one out im done in maybe 2 minutes and then its over. I do it just to get release of pressure buildup if im not having sex. Its just not an exciting event to be honest.

Touching and rubbing someones body(foreplay) and seeing what reaction they have to your hands/mouth/penis is very rewarding. I think if you go into sex very selfishly, youre missing the entire point. It should be about arousing your partner just as much as it is arousing for you. I dont know man. I understand all the work involved but that journey to get to the prize is well worth it, especially if the person is super attractive to you and its all you think about for days. For when it finally happens its amazing. So the anticipation is what makes it better than a simple wank. Maybe im crazy but having sex has no comparison to a wank. But to each their own i guess.