Me [14 M] with my "girlfriend" [14 F] half a day, Yea yea yea, I know we're young. Not exactly sure whats even going on anymore

thank you so much for the advice! It all worked out in the end, but it took an aweful turn for the worse. So we were just texting (i prefer texting because im the kinda guy that thinks about what he sais before he sais it, so talking on the phone is a lot of just awkward silence.....) and then out of no where, she drops a bomb shell. She loves me. Of course I know she doesnt REALLY love me, but instead of saying that, i froze up. i had no idea what to say, so i just wrote "oh my god, I love you to!". this was the biggest mistake, because now I am in way to deep. At this point I'm not really texting much because it's easter and im spending it with my family, but when we get home I start texting up a storm. Now I was worried for a bit, because this girl was all over the place. One minute she was confident (which I like) and the next she is saying things about jow ugly she is. At one point she had an hour long crying session because I said I thought that the whole love thing might've been a little soon. So it's about 7pm, and she asks me if I've told my mom yet. I say no, because I know my mom and I know she'll be super awkward about it, so I say no. After about ten minutes, i decide to just tell my mom that I'm dating someone. Now I told her close to nothing, but she still helped a lot. I now know that most girls that age are very emotional, and are figuring out what they want from people. After this me and her are texting again, and she drops another bombshell. She wants to spend it with me. I ask what she is talking about, and she sais this exactly "I want to spend m... m.... my L....I......F.....E with you......" at this point I've had enough and I just come out and say that neither of us are in love. She disagrees and says she is, and I tell her what I think love is.I say "Love is when you want to be with someone so much, that you'd die for them. The thought of excisting without them in the world is just more painful than the thought of no longer living, and I can't, and don't, love you." It takes awhile, but we sort it out and are now planning to meet up with a group to see a movie some time next week, and I can't lie I'm very excited! so again, thanks for the advice!

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