In regards to my mum actually doing my laundry and stuff, it's more that she does them all together? If that makes sense. I put my stuff in my washing basket and then I put in with the rest of the washing when we do it, in one big bulk go, if that makes sense.

She doesn't actively make me food as in from scratch, I go to the gym a lot so I have a lot of meals ready made which I prepare myself, sometimes my mum asks If I would like her to put it in the oven for me when it gets to around tea time and she can see I haven't eaten. Sometimes I ask her if she can just put my tea in while I come home from the gym and go for a shower. I think the friction within the relationship is not that my mum does things for me, but that Sally's mum doesn't do it for her? Or for the fact me and my mum perhaps have a better relationship? As I said, she has complained about the things I've mentioned, but if my mum offers to put my food in and to save me going downstairs, am i at fault for saying yes to that? I think it's more of a 'you scratch my back, i scratch yours' sort of thing, if my mum asks me to prepare her a gin and tonic while i'm in the kitchen, I do so because we just sort of have that relationship I guess?

We aren't fighting often, we get along great. When we're in each others company for an extended amount of time, we argue. She is round my house every weekend, however there isn't anywhere else she can really go in my house other than my bedroom? So we do spend the weekend in a confined space with each other. I have suggested going out for food and stuff and going on 'a date', or just going for a walk, however she insists she is happy with reading her books and just staying inside. I remember reading somewhere on Reddit the whole 2-2-2 rule thing, but we haven't actually been out for like 5 weeks at this point. But she insists she's happy staying in, which does cause friction because as much as I love her, I do like my own space too.