Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 9 months, posted to r/gonewild and has since stopped having sex with me.

I am constantly telling her how beautiful she is, how pretty she looks, holding her and kissing her and cuddling her.

Way to put her on a pedestal! She's a girl not some demigod...

Yesterday I whispered in her ear for ages

Sounds... creepy as fuck.

she just feels bad because she isn't in the mood and doesn't know what to say when I tell her that she's pretty

Well duh, you venerate this girl. You treat her as a goddess and obviously she feels like she should reciprocate or give you something in return... Making affection feel like a transaction doesn't sound like fun to me.

She seemed to be pulling away a bit when I kissed her, so I asked if she didn't find me attractive anymore

Way to turn a small thing into a huge, invented attack on your person.... You sound excessively needy, insecure and completely blind to any of her flaws (of which I'm sure there are many... on account of her being human)

if she didn't find me attractive anymore [I] told her I would change anything she liked.

rolls eyes Sounds healthy and super masculine. Way to display your true sense of self. Obviously you have a very dfined personality other than "I worship my GF and will be whoever she wants me to"

People who erase so much of themselves to please other usually expect something in return and get frustrated when they don't get it.

this is bothering me in a way I never imagined it would. [...] the fact that she wants to touch me less with each day that goes by really hurts me. [..] I just can't help thinking these two are related. My girlfriend is getting sent nude pictures of random guys ffs!

And there it is!

You were dishonest with yourself when asked if you would be bother by GW posts. A direct consequence of that is that you were dishonest with your SO. You told her the posts didn't bother you but they do! Admit it! Be real!

Buddy you are deeply in denial about your neediness and I suggest you seek personal counsel to figure out what you want and need in a relationship.

Stop the worship, you're using it to avoid thinking about you.

I suggest you find a therapist you enjoy and have some sessions that are 100% about you. What you discover about yourself may surprise you.

Best of luck

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