Me [25 M] with my GF [26F], our sex life is dull, and I'm both unhappy and happy about it.

Without being too specific, I don't like the idea of her performing certain sex acts on me as I think it's below her

Ehm, what?

so unless she initiates it I don't ask for it and even then I can't really enjoy it.

Relationships are all about compromise. If your gf doesn't mind, why don't you just let her pleasure you? Just because she doesn't initiate a certain act doesn't mean she doesn't like it at all and resents you.

Again I think it degrades her and is below her and it's not something she should have to do. I've lightly brushed the subject with her and she didn't express much interest so obviously am not going to force the issue.

Madonna/whore complex much? This is something you should talk about with a counselor. Sorry, don't put your gf on a pedestal.

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