Call me crazy all you want, but after taking some time to think about what makes females sexually crazy for men, and implementing some of those strategies in my relationship, the results speak volumes. I used to be so afraid to talk to other girls, let alone lightly flirt with them in front of my gf. I would go out of my way to make sure she knew I would never leave her, and I was truly committed. Then I realized that the more I pledged my love and commitment, the less sex I got. I was sure my gf loved me, I just couldn't figure out why she didn't want to jump my bones every night for being such a caring loving bf. I eventually realized that by trying to avoid jealous feelings in my girlfriend, I was making her feel too comfortable about our relationship. Once I stopped worrying about her jealousy or other relationship concerns and just started having fun again, hanging with old friends, some of which were girls, she had this renewed vigor to keep me happy.

A woman will not go out of her way to please a man she believes is already %100 committed to her, and the more love and commitment you throw at her, the less likely she is to use sex to keep you happy. People will call me crazy, or say I'm manipulating my gf, but by establishing that I will only remain in the relationship as long as my needs are being met, and displaying to her that I am able to get my needs met elsewhere in a heartbeat if I wanted, my gf of 10 years is actually going out of her way to please me and keep me happy, and now I feel better about showering her with my love and committment. It sounds weird but she's actually happier too, knowing that I could get with other girls, but I'm choosing to be with her. Now I am the one turning her down for sex because she is so crazy about me. I've gotten sex or a bj 56 out of the past 60 days, with her initiating almost every time.

Listen to me or agree with everyone else, I don't care. But if you do follow my advice be careful. The behaviors and strategies I talked about are a little more subtle in practice than just "going out and finding backup gfs". Hit me up if you want more info.