Me 25M with my Girlfriend 25F. Been together one year, known each other for seven. Difficult time.

She was upset at my perceived lack of caring, and concluded that I wasn't as invested in the relationship as her if i thought this was ok, which she told me.

Shortly before Christmas, she called me up on the way to her work and said we should have a break.

By the end of the night she said that she wanted to break up.

That brings you up to speed. I feel depressed, scared and terrified of losing her. I haven't told anyone about this yet. The time we spend together is amazing, and she loves me wholeheartedly.

Look, as long as your gf doesn't work on herself in therapy, she'll continue pushing you away. So at the moment, I think you need to look out for your own health and stay no contact with her. And please go into counseling yourself. You really need it.

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