Me [26M] found out my gf [30F] of ~5 months, was married

Yes. I don't blame you for not believing this. I know it sounds outlandish. I've confirmed everything I've said with here. She also has a solo pilot's license, plays multiple instruments, speaks multiple languages, etc. I know it sounds unreal, but i've witnessed it. I've seen it. Her IQ is 182... which is a rarity of approx 1 in 44 million people. I can't express to you how people this smart are just good at..EVERYTHING. Literally everything they touch. Her 2 year old daughter was brilliant too. For a while they thought it was autism.

Some details that may ease you... I obviously tried to condense the whole story down as much as I could. So there are minor details I left out because I deemed them irrelevant. She did 3 years of a particle physics degree and then switched to biotech. She is not a neurosurgeon but a neurosurgery nurse and is in med school for neurosurgery. She is currently earning her 3rd graduate degree/license in medicine. These minor details were more or less irrelevant to the context of my relationship problem. She is smart and that is what I was trying to convey. Also, the symphony is not Mozart by any means. But music is her outlet, and she is an incredible musician and singer. I cannot explain the spatial reasoning ability of someone with an IQ this high... and it was truly refreshing for me because she could understand the advanced complexities of my thoughts on things ranging from science, music, economics, drugs, people, philosophy, politics... everything. We had conversations that we both knew exactly what each other was saying but no one else around us would be interested in partaking in. Not that other people were dumb or anything... it was just that we shared similar interests and thought patterns.

After everything went down, of course I doubted EVERYTHING about her. I thought all of her accomplishments were BS. It was only after talking with her husband and friends afterwards that they confirmed all of her accomplishments/skills and after I had witnessed her writing music right in front of me. It was truly powerful but I wouldn't blame you if you didn't believe me.

As a side note, I will say that people this smart now scare the fuck out of me. The level of social engineering/manipulation that went into pulling this off is truly impressive. I really could write a short book on some of this stuff.

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