Well I can honestly say as the ex boyfriend of said person I am completely shocked to find this on here with half twisted truths. I never had an issue with his stuff being in her house, I had an issue with her lying about her ex and saying I wasn't sure if I wanted to be with him or me. I was at the time doing everything I can to support our relationship long distance. I was absolutely devastated. We were both bringing stuff up from the past and our communication was poor. One point that really angered me was the girl that jumped on me and licked me. utter utter bollocks. She knows it and I do. And the head in my lap moment? Completely blown out of context. She made me feel like I full on skull bashed this girl when all that happened was she fell backwards off her chair, head hit my lap, she laughed I laughed, she moved her head and nothing else. The whole thing lasted about 3 seconds and when I saw my ex panicking I grabbed her hand and assured her that everything was ok, I looked into her eyes and did all I could to assure her and stop her panicking. She didn't bring this up till last week so that was 3 months on. I didn't invite her out for two reasons 1) we argued about her attitude towards me when I came round to help her move some boxes despite me making effort to cool the situation. 2) why would I invite her when she laid into them in a foul mouthed bombardment behind their back? I have never cheated and never will, so for all you cunts who said it then you like my ex do not know me at all. I made me decision because I was unhappy, we couldn't move on from shit, we weren't compatible on a communication level, I was trying to move past the incident of last year and couldn't when we kept going round in circles on the same issue. I had enough and did what's best for me. I had always put my ex first and in time it's damaged me. So I did the best for us both and ended it. Rant over.