Yes, I’m not after half at all, and don’t really feel like it’s right to take anything. My boss offered to pay for the initial consultation if I wanted it. If only for him to just write my ex a letter and see what the response is. He said most likely that if I got this letter written he would be paying and probably getting his lawyer to then get me something back that I would need to sign to say I wouldn’t seek any further money. - Again, really not sure I want to do it at all. We moved into a more expensive place than where I previously lived on the pretense that we would be living together long term. We bought brand new massive furniture to fill our new large apartment. It’s unusually sized for Sydney. If I chose to move I most likely would need to sell it as I don’t see a 2m 8 seater dining set fitting into a typical Sydney dwelling. All of the furniture is exceptionally large. On the whole I’m incurring a lot of extra expenses that I wouldn’t have if we were together. Also in relation to my loan, we had planned to buy property or a franchise together and. If we had bought property our debts would have been incorporated into the mortgage to be paid as a unit and I thought this is what would happen.