Two - I'm the type of person who calls people out on their b.s. period, end of story. I'm a very no nonsense type of person when it comes to relationships. You respect them and don't fuck with them.

you sound insufferable, especially with this:

Afterwards, I blocked him for good measure - as well as the twins. I got a couple of text messages from Tabitha before I blocked her number (something forgotten until then), and so I know he's at least asked her about my message.

in mind. you fuck with their lives and then block them so you don't have to face any fallout.

Come to find out, they've been sexting / crossing boundaries. I tell Tabitha I'm not comfortable keeping this secret; I've been cheated on before while other friends who knew stood on the sidelines to watch the world burn.

what proof did you obtain? you brought your own baggage to the table here, btw

look, i hate cheats too, but this thread is full of the kind of logic that winds me up just as much. if you want to be this no bs, hard arse person, you can't then hide from the consequences.