Me (28m) and an old friend (29f) have recently reconnected but they are in a longterm relationship.

I would not hold your breath waiting for this one to work out man, SOO many red flags here.

It's not just long distance, but you live in different countries. That is a difficult road block for healthy, established couples. It is difficult to the point of foolishness to start a new relationship this far apart, with no end to the long distance in sight.

Beyond that, she's in a relationship man. What she's doing right now is basically emotional cheating. How upset would you be if you were her boyfriend, and you were a fly on the wall for her telling you she's physically attracted to you and "confused" and thinking about having a relationship with you? Just remember, if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.

End the headache before it starts and look for single women to date who don't require a plane ride and a visa to see you.

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