Me (30m) never had a girlfriend, is there any hope ?

It’s not an issue per se. But I will send a warning out to you as someone who dated a man who started dating me when he was 30 and I was his first girlfriend; there will be so much to learn from your first relationship and you may make a lot of mistakes. A lot of people told me it’s a red flag, but I was patient with him and tried to teach him a lot about what goes into a long term relationship. But in the end, what ended us what a complete misunderstanding that wouldn’t have happened had he had experience. It breaks my heart because he was what I wanted for a lifetime after a decade of dating trial and error, and I was just his first girlfriend in the end. When you do get into a relationship, definitely get lots of advice, listen and communicate in your relationship all the time. You may find someone else who has never dated which would make the playing field equal, but many women have dated a lot by the age of 30 and know what they want by that age. If you just want to date for fun or for a first experience, make sure the woman knows that first. Hope this helps in some way give some insight.

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