Me [31M] with my friend [20F] online friendship, should I pursue more?

You’re being gross in a number of way. Even you recognize that she’s not fully developed. A 20 year old is not on the same experiential level as a 31 year old. Stop.

she has made it clear her interest in long distance relationships are essentially non-existent. I would be willing to change her mind on that matter without a doubt, for the short term.

“I’m willing to manipulate her in order to get what I want,” yes that’s incredibly obvious. You have ill intent here. Stop.

I have seriously considered altering my life to move to Canada if our relationship were to flourish.

The result has me been neglecting myself emotionally, and physically in terms of my weight. In my current state, I expect nothing but rejection

This is literally and clinically delusional. You are considering moving countries for someone who you are not with, someone you have never been with, someone who has never indicated any romantic interest in you, someone who has outright told you they would never be in a LDR, someone who you know will reject you, when you yourself admit you are emotionally unready for a relationship. Stop.

This is not okay, it is time to go to counseling and honestly probably stop talking to her.

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