3. Me [39 M] with my wife [33 F] 10 years, I had the perfect life, then my wife got...

Me [39 M] with my wife [33 F] 10 years, I had the perfect life, then my wife got cancer

I don't know if you loved her. It was solely infatuation.

Love takes work. Work takes effort. You seemed to only care about her when she was doing stuff with you and for you cooking, Money, etc

I don't think I'd ever go that far for someone I love man. Sure you get frustrated but after a few times don't you realize what you're doing and just say I need help?

Bro...like why?

I don't get it. How?

I hope to never become a man like you. I'm 19 and despite all your "success" and lavish life I feel I'm Better than you and saying that makes me upset.

No man I haven't and I don't want too.

But...

There's hope dude. Make due with what you have now and be better from now on. Stop drinking and wallowing in Pity pick yourself up.

  1. Workout daily get in even better shape
  2. Eat healthy foods and herbs
  3. Join new hobbies or classes (cooking, sports,etc)
  4. Get some counseling
  5. Read more books
  6. Pray/meditate

Advance your life for the better despite your failures. There is hope. I'm not gonna say you'll get back together or something cause who knows but you can still find happiness.

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