This is me just bragging about my son, in (very)long-form. I don't know where else to do it. I will not be offended if you ignore/hide/downvote. I really just need to get it out.

So, this touched on a thing I'm sensitive about. Since their dad passed, their stepmom has sort of tried to take on his role. I hate it, but it's important to them, so I don't fight it. I want to, but I also want what's best for them.

Anyway, you're right. I'm lucky to have him. Anyway. Point being. This son has had a hard time connecting with Stepmom. Like, he will text me and say he doesn't understand why she cannot give him the same love and sympathy she gives my younger son. And while I absolutely HATE that he feels that way about her, I also really flush with love that he knows he can come to me with anything and I will love and support him and give him the uplift he needs. He's done it several times now, and it makes me feel shitty that he has to deal with such negativity but also so great that he knows he can get what he needs from me.

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