How do you figure? We have an amazing life, an amazing sex life, 3 amazing kids, together 16 years and we both still game often. We’re also getting ready to buy and refurbish a sailboat for after the kids finish school.
If you’re a person who expects to maintain a relationship, and also game all of your spare time when you’re not asleep/at work, then maybe don’t. People get sick of emotionally unavailable people.
The reason you make a schedule is NOT to limit anyone -note the word MINIMUM- but to make sure that people’s personal time doesn’t get continuously put aside - the speed of life, work, kids, and keeping a home will run roughshod over your existence if you let it - the schedule is literally to prevent that.
But think what you want and do whatever makes you happy ❤️❤️❤️