Im in a same situation. I have (in my opinion) interesting hobbies like graphics design, 3d modeling, I made some 3d animations, I write books, and Im relatively good in PC stuff, I built my own PC. While people my age I know only talk about football and getting drunk or talk about how stupid other people are. Any time I mention my hobbies, they dont care or cant talk in depth about them.

I am also not fitting most gender stereotypes but I dont have the self confidence to pull it off in a charismatic way which is also a problem.

Its kinda my fault I guess but idc about the normie topics or I just cant talk about football and parties which most normies have as hobbies I guess, and since cuz of my different/unusual hobbies I cant really make friends, ofc I cant talk about many social events either.

I think its mostly bad luck/circumstances but genereally I feel like Im the more accepting, open minded while people really just dont care or mock me.