Got to be careful here too. It's all well and good saying the women were victims and they should be the subject of the conversation, but the men were also victims. EVERYONE who got caught up with Joe's nonsense was a victim, both husband and wife.

So how are we going to start phrasing this? Joseph went after married couples?

The thing is Joseph DID go after other men's wives. Likewise, Joseph went after women.

It really does depend who is the subject of the conversation. I don't think it's wrong or incorrect to say Joseph went after other men's wives.

Neither is right, neither is wrong...depending on who the subject of the conversation is.

Maybe someone can point out my mistakes, but that's what I'm thinking.