Meeting Interest/Expectations

Deciding if they meet the cut for everyone to fuck productively to your liking.

You aren't dating people looking for someone that can keep impressing you every day for the next 20 years, you are looking for people that can impress you for 20 minutes over drinks.

Much of that impression is how they treat their own spouse. If you flirt with me and ignore your spouse like they aren't in the room, well I am not very impressed.

Some people are just boring because they have spent 15 years being boring. If you are a charismatic flirt, then you can usually bring a little 25-year-old I need to lay it on the lie out in them. If not a second meeting may be mandatory to knock off the rust.

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