Meeting my girlfriend part two

I'm not judging, and I don't know the full story, but thought i'd share what happened to me, just to make you aware that female hormones can play tricks and lead to danger for both her and you.

When I was 13 a youth worker took me under his wing, to look after me and help me deal with life. Female, teenage hormones are pure bastard scumbags, and inevitably I thought I had fallen in love with him. In reality it was a hormonal surge, and this man (who was in his sixties) should have known not to act on a teenagers feelings, I'd always told him I wasn't ready for sex, but he said that love means sex - typical grooming ( again, i'm not saying that this is what you'll do). He took his chance, and I ended up being raped repeatedly by him over the years, and I was in no way ready for sex with him or anyone. It then led to sustained sexual, emotional and mental abuse which still affects me to this day... i'm 29 now and it has ruined my life. I got the courage to tell him to fuck off when I turned 18, my Mum phoned the police when she found out what had happened and he did 4 years in prison.

I'm not saying you're going to do this, please don't think i'm being harsh, or accusing you of being a paedo, but teenager hormones are awful, it may be inevitable that she will fall hard for you, and if you go down the road of a relationship, or sex etc, then it could put you in a very dangerous situation. If she does get feelings for you and begs you for sex, would you have the restraint to say no?

Sorry if this was unwarranted, but be very very careful. It's a risky road with an adult male and a teenager, and even if you wait until she's 18, emotional damage can still be done.

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