Lol, well honestly I’m ugly enough that no psychology degree is required to assume I live with a healthy amount of self esteem issues, but old enough life has left it’s callous, and I have thick enough skin that I can project confidence, as I won’t allow others to walk over me no matter how much I dislike the chips I was given, so there’s that. I don’t always feel it’s necessary to share your every walking fear and mistake to grow close to someone. There are plenty of great existential dread memes to share and bond over, I prefer to find the humor in things I guess. I don’t always see a point to getting heavy about the past as a requirement for me to accept you for who you’ve become.