Do Men Actually Like Nice Girls or Not?

I'm ex-Christian. Raised Southern Baptist, converted to Roman Catholicism, then to Islam, and back to Catholic and finally atheist. I just can't believe in a God who never speaks to me.

When RPChristians first started I did post replies there and RC asked if I would do a post on female fitness which I declined. Sometimes I am tempted still to reply there but it is wasted time. One of my interests is studying new religious movements or cults and how they develop and become more stringent to isolate themselves from outside influences. RPChristians is now just an echo chamber.

I finally left when I realized St.John Chrysostom, Archbishop of Constantinople, an important Early Church Father, 300ish AD, was too blue pilled for them. He wrote beautifully on marriage.

But I had been already on my way out when I called out the misrepresentation of Scripture and busted RC posing as another user in one of his replies. I've got a good memory and a red flag went off that one of his replies to me sounded just like something another person wrote. Sort of like how bluepillprofessor also got busted on BPreddit.

I only found out about TP ideology because I Googled something like men's needs in marriage. I was initially searching to find what men wanted so I could make sure I was being the best wife to my husband. Well I was shocked when I found MRP, and like observing a trainwreck I couldn't help but keep rubberneckkng to look at the mess.

Sometimes people will mistake me for a RPW and encourage me to post over there. I used to but got banned. Those women don't really want a Captain and to be FO and called them out on the romance novel view of it and encouraged a female poster to save herself for marriage when others were saying that mid-20s virgin would make her an oddity. And me being me, too strong in view, got banned.

Anywho, I can understand why you would think religion is BP. I don't think it is, unless you are only being moral for the sake of entry to heaven then it becomes a covert contract type of thing.

My marriage is based on protestant Christian vows and the New Testament form my views of marriage. Whereas some people, especially women, were harmed to the church's teachings on sex, I walked away with an extremely positive view of sex within marriage. I don't reply much from this aspect of my personal life but the mythical Adam and Eve form the archetypes for me and assist me in my role as wife.

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