Men & Women - How do you set your standards for physical attraction, weight, height, and if/what changes your mind?

I will answer you in points:

1&2) I only want what I offer, nothing more or nothing less. Speaking about physical attributes - I've always been call cute and I am super fit, so I want somebody similar but I am quite flexible. I dont need some super fit girl, being healthy weight its enough for me, I can even tolerate few (not a lot) extra pounds but on the other side I have a weakness for pretty face and nice smile. So ideally I would like to have a girl who has slightly better face than me, and she can have slightly worse body to compensate it :)) But seriously, its more about being my type and chemistry, than about being conventionally attractive.

3) no

4) I think its important to be honest with yourself, know what you offer, know what you want and make sure its in balance. If its like that, everything is ok, and you should never lower those standards, even if u are single for a while...It would be only unfair to your partner, if he knew he/she is your plan B

5) I think OLD is not the best way to find a romantic partner, because it eliminates chemistry (it cant be seen through photos) and make it mostly about look and I am sure we all miss many good matches because of this. Thats why I dont do online dating. I consider it shallow and superficial...

And differences between OLD and IRL dating? Personally for me, very big.

For me its a lot about chemistry, and thats so much easier to have (or create) during real life interactions, than online.

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