Men of ARAD: Why do you want random women on Reddit to send nudes? You can arguably google someone much hotter than me doing more more sexual stuff. Why waste time on us?

Good question, I was going to post the same one. I already knew why they like it…I’ve been told about that it’s because the pic is specifically for them.

But let me take this discussion a step further… any if any men have insight, I am desperate for answers

For men who love getting nudes from women… just how far are they willing to go? For example: you see regular, G-rated pics of a girl online and you find her to be gorgeous… and you initiate a conversation and ask for nudes right away and she declines because she doesn’t know you well….are you willing to lie to her / keep talking with her / essentially manipulate her feelings / lead her into a false sense of security / make her think you have strong feelings for her…. just to get a steady stream of pics / vids / video sex / and sex texting?

I’d appreciate any and all insights. I am facing a strong possibility that someone did this to me. It has gone on for around 8 months. He just ghosted me. I begged him to give me an answer. To tell me why he wants nothing to do with me anymore. He just blocked me from everywhere. And now I’m in a lot of pain and I feel used and stupid. Everything I thought, was all a lie. And after talking to a friend, he said that this guy sounds like a “pic freak”. That’s the term he used. He was very adamant. As soon as he said that…some of these puzzle pieces started to fit together such as all of the times he got extremely angry with me for not sending a pic when he would ask. And more than likely, he found another girl who would fulfill these desires better than I did.

Does anyone know of men who would do this?

Sorry for the long comment. I just feel extremely confused and empty. I don’t sleep, I already lost 10 lbs and i agonize over every detail. I try hard not to think about it but the thoughts are intrusive. My brain wants to understand. It’s trying desperately to connect the dots and it’s torture. So far, this pic thing is the only plausible theory I have.

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