Men, how can a female friend get out of the friendzone with you?

Struggling with dating in general is one thing and if fundamental issues apply then yeah see to them, things like personal hygiene, wearing cleaner, intact clothing etc all help as well as managing your own expectations about being able to meet women are all important.

trying to change who you are to please one person in particular is unhealthy and likely to backfire once the early shine wears off and who you are as a person starts to break through. It happens in both genders so it’s not an inherently male or female thing so it’s not a dig at anyone in particular. Shoot your shot but do it honestly. If it works great hope you live happily ever after but if it fails you’re better of learning from the experience if you can and move on. Obsessing over one individual isn’t healthy and wastes time you could be finding or spending with someone who does see your value.

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