Its because men dont want to like women. We want to love you. And we can't do both at the same time. And tbh there's a side of us that is gf access only. If You don't want to be said gf. It's alright. We'll invest somewhere else. Even with the sarcastic tone. You are right. He's just asking you. We got all this. Do you want to bang also? And you say. No im good. Which is fine. But the guy is looking for mate. Not a pal. Nice guy/girl problem is an ego problems. Guys will shoot their shot if they have a crush on you. Everyone tells them to. Girls will also do that but it's usually when you let them in a little more. It's a young adult situation. You give less fuck over time and all you want is a good friend.