Do you think men looking just for sex subsides after 30?

Of course men are still looking for sex. Men at almost any age are - even before puberty all we can think about is sex. Why would you imagine this would stop at age 40?

If you accept men generally want sex, who do you think they want it with? a 60yo woman? 50 maybe? Please, we want it with the hottest, firmest, youngest woman we can get. Preferably one with no children, and no baggage.

It's 'fun' and 'sex.' This isn't something modern, nor something unnatural. It's just nature. The same unconscious push for procreation that make women prefer symmetry in faces, square jaws, big gestures, confidence etc.

Love how some of the women on here are getting in jabs about men >40 are limp dicks. I think you have your own issues with menopause, dry vag, hormones and all the rest. Aging sucks for everyone.

Ironic that women in their 20's rule to roost, they can pick and choose their mates at will. A pretty girl will leave a trail of broken hearts, usually. Guys will jump through hoops just to be with them, they shine like little supernova. That same woman at 45 is horribly bitter, her star now dim, the guys not lining up, it's unfair, men are evil, limp dicked, scumbags.

Just nature, or karma, or both. You had your time, it's not mans fault that you made bad choices with your relationships and wasted the time you had while you were still a commodity.

Let's face it, women have a much shorter shelf life. 18 - 35 or so, at best. A man can still command a younger and attractive woman into his 50's especially if he's been successful, has money or opportunity, confidence, or game.

I feel that many men get trapped in the family thing, and once they're out of it they're starving for sex and they want to recapture some of that lost time. men don't typically stand around bitching bitterly about all women, (just their ex-wife) - they love women and just want to have some fun. It's the women who get burnt out on 'all men' and make generalizations. I guess because they're no longer desirable and that's the best they can do.

My advice would be to just worry about yourself, and let others worry about their sex hookups and relationships.

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