Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past?

Yep! I'd be so down! I'm shit with women, so we're both 'damaged goods' or whatever. They always want me to take the lead and compete for their attention, and I just dont have it in me. If you were hot, interesting, forward but not too needy up front, made the first move or two (or three), and willing to take me on a freaky adventure in the bedroom, I'd be so down. I find the idea of taking care of some babe in the woods and showing her the ropes tedious. I dont know the ropes and I dont want to have to maintain some facade of sexual confidence that I've never actually earned.

Here's a big question though: Is an MFF threesome something you'd be into enough to initiate and make happen? Because leaving that possibility on the table in the future for real reaaaally ups the selling points, at least for me. Chances are, in my case, that I'd be too chicken shit to go through with it anyway, but the idea that I'd have a shot at a threesome would keep me around for a very long time. The feeling is that most 'nice' girls wouldnt put out in this way. If a slutty girl has done it before and is ok with it, then that means being in a relationship with that girl isnt the end of my chances to have a variety in my sex life. (an absurd fear given my track record, but a real fear nevertheless)

I'm a fucked up, no question, but this is where I'm at. I wont ever be the kind of guy who gets the experiences the 'normal' or healthy way, so maybe me and a slutty girl can rescue each other from the fate our respective sexual statuses would likely inflict upon us otherwise.

Super hot proposition, I know. But at least you know there's someone like me out there. You'll have to make the first move though.

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