Men of Reddit, how would you feel about getting an unsolicited vaj pic?

Weird and dirty, honestly.

First off - Most girls that do that are unattractive and looking for validation. Better ones tend to have a greater sense of self-respect. If someone's sending me a pic like that it's likely some fat girl that wants attention.

Secondly, they're weird to me. I dunno how a lot of guys jerk off to... just a straight-up... picture like that... but for me I'm more into the general girl herself. Curves in all the right places, pretty face and hair, etc. A hot sense of style and assertive personality.

A vagina is just... this oozing... flappy thing they have... it's just one part. I can't like someone on just... that...

Lastly, I'd feel like a douche myself too. I always kinda looked down on people that trade nudes or do drugs or... ya know, scummy stuff. I'm Mr. Lawful and Righteous I guess. I feel like I wanna get there slowly the right way. I'd feel like "I'm one of them" if someone tries to drag me down to that level.

Annnnddd my innocence. Seeing stuff like that leaves a sudden shock in me much like a little kid. In that regard I really changed much since I was little. I still can't kill anything ever (in fact I caught this little guy today! He was in my shower. Video of releasing him, if you care. Slugs are the most common thing here though. I had to catch a wasp the other day actually, no idea how he got in.) and I still feel terribly shy about sex stuff. I take out any frustrations in my video games (which I also upload sometimes). I seem to be surprisingly good at fighting and destruction when I gotta be strong, but that's not something I ever like to resort to in real life if I can help it. Much as I like to act evil online and in games sometimes, it's more like I use it as a way for letting some other side of me I keep locked-up to vent a little. Irl I'm... way more gentle or.. something. I dunno... My combat side doesn't start to show unless shit really hits the fan and I gotta get serious. Wait I'm getting off-track.

Idk. I'm not the type to be into oral, obviously. Always been one more sensitive and conscious about hygiene and stuff too. I've never been too much of a fun and freaky guy I guess, more like... organized, sensitive, perfectionist (but I can be rough when I need to be too.. it's like I'm some weird mix of Perl and Amethyst from SU, part of me not wanting to think too much and willing to get crazy, another more dominant part (my brain) wanting to be clean and organized, squeamish, and perfectionist). I guess there's not a big chance a guy like me is gonna be interesting to girls, but it's not that I need one anyway, I've become comfortable accepting my life as it is, I'm alone but free of complication. Too much stuff on the brain gives a guy like me anxiety, life should stay simple. Besides... I'm unsure if I could really love anyone. Like I feel like I care about everything (for some annoying reason), but never really "loved" anyone before. Stuff like love and friendship can be relatively confusing to someone like me that overthinks things - I wonder what it is and if it's real or just us holding on to each other out of selfish feelings like loneliness. I dunno...

I just dunno. What's it matter. Here I am thinking too much again. Dammit how did I get so scrambled over such a stupid question again? This happens way too often.

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