When you meet new people, including girls, treat them like potential new friends. You’re just trying to get to know them and be yourself around them. Think of women as just any other person, not some achievement you get if you fuck them.

Once you know she’s comfortable, you can be flirtatious, displaying that you show interest. This is more accepted by women because girls like it when you think they’re hot because you talked to them, not because you just looked at them.

If she isn’t showing any clear signs she’s interested in talking with you or flirting with you, its best to leave her alone and move on. In some cases, she might come back looking for you.

TL;DR Women are just people, be friends first, then be flirtatious, continue if flirting is answered, quit if resisted