Whenever I go on dates my aim is always to establish comfort on date 1, get the big dealbreakers out of the way on date 2, and on date 3 you really flirt and open up and see if there’s a romantic spark.

We are on the same page here. But are you actively flirty / romantic on day one and see if the guy reciprocates?

not another addition to the friendzone.

IDK why friendzone is so frowned upon. Are you in the same age group as me?

If you’re meeting women on dating apps no one will be exclusive just because they’re talking to you.

This is true, but everyone knows this. All of this kind of proves the point that people want to rush in.