I felt bad that when my daughter turned 13 most of her friends began dressing such that you can't tell if they're 13 or 19 and so I had to caution my husband to stop being so chatty and playful with all her friends when we're at the fair, because it looks like he's hitting on children. Also because they wear booty shorts and cleavage shirts (my daughter does NOT) and when he spends all that time smiling and looking at them and talking and laughing and offering to pay for their fair games and whatnot, it looks like the creepiest creeper shit ever.

There's a fine line between "it's sad that guys have to even think about this" and "actually yeah grown men in their mid to late 40s don't need to spend that much time staring at 14 year old cleavage and ass, good point, it's better all around for EVERYONE if they don't".