Not a dude (woman who likes women) but there's something that male coworkers and I have in common thats been discussed among us. Some women at work think every dude is into them by default, and make a big deal/draw attention to it even though there's no basis for it. They'll loudly have a "private conversation" about how its soooooo weird that so-and-so wants them and omg can you believe how obsessed so-and-so is with them. They are rude and always talk to you like they know something you dont. Tell the whole staff how creepy and in love with them you are even though you barely talk to the woman. Its been at more than 1 workplace so I know the type of woman. She has 2 kids, average looking, will be 50 before she knows it, sells weight loss wraps or leggings on Facebook. They're huge bigots right under the surface and can barely hold it in at work so demonizing chill dudes who won't retaliate or gay chicks is their way to be a bigot without actually saying it.