Men of reddit, what's the most hurtful thing a girl has ever said to you?

Alright children, story time. So I met this girl through a friend of mine at a concert of his. We ended up going to an after party and my friend and his girlfriend were there with each other and my ex and I were basically sitting on opposite sides of the room. We both are painfully shy. After the party which we really hadn't talked at all during, we went and slept at his drummers house due to extraneous circumstances. My friend went to talk with his friends and his girlfriend went to the bathroom. We were forced into awkward conversation, but it was nice to meet someone new. We eventually went to sleep and she left the next day with her friend.

Later on my friend told me that she liked being with me, which I was surprised to hear as I never had been in that position before with a girl. That's an important detail as well I suppose, she was my first girlfriend and as of today my only. The next day I was invited to an amusement park with the same four people. Once again we didn't talk all day. We had a bonfire afterwards and the same situation took place where we were left alone. We made awkward conversation again and finally she just decided to say I like you, could I have your number. I of course said yes, and eventually we just started to hang out some. When we would hang out we would basically just stare at each other and smile, which sounds silly but it was nice. Eventually I worked up the courage to ask her out. I have no idea how to ask someone out so I just asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend haha. She said yes and we started to hang out more often.

After a while when we'd been going out for a while she told me that she was waiting for sex for marriage, can't remember the exact situation, but it definitely wasn't due to me pushing it. She mentioned then that she had had a situation with her rapist in the past, but she said she had been molested rather than raped as she didn't want to alienate me, though it wouldn't have. One day we were fooling around after getting tea and she had a flashback to her rape. I was super nervous that I had done something wrong and I had actually been in the hospital for an outpatient program a while back where I had shared a group with several rape victims, which caused me to understand the severity of the situation. She was shaken but recovered eventually. I drove her home and we said our goodbyes, but I was scared to touch her as I didn't want her to feel unsafe in any way. This is where I thought I realized how much her rape had scarred her.

One day we decided to go downtown. We ended up getting lost, but we were used to it as we often played a game called the penny game, where we flipped a coin and took turns based on it being heads or tails, left or right. Finally we found ourselves at a state park where we were able to be alone generally. She worked up the courage to tell me about her rape, and that she had fudged the truth a bit in the past. I had no qualms with this, and I listened to her story and tried to console her as much as I could. She had actually been friends with this guy before this, and he apparently was a good guy up until then. One day she decided to go smoke with

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