I have an odd opinion about this.

I think with the way things are then no, the man should not have a say.

I think the man “should” have a say, but there are lots of things that need to change for it to be valid. If the man has a say then he is on the hook from the get go. He needs to be responsible for the pregnancy as well. The man, if only he wants it, should also be responsible for paying for the woman’s time, lost wages, and provide compensation because being pregnant is hard and hard on the body and is work. There is also a large amount of risk!

There is more that needs to change as well but this is all my brain is coming up with now.

This is all assuming the act of conception was consensual.

Until changes along this nature are made, then a man shouldn’t have a say.

Probably an unpopular opinion.