Only if it's telling you what to do. My bf wanted to make cookies last night, but I was doing all the work and he wanted me to make alterations that I wasn't planning on for this recipe. I told him if he wanted to do that he could make his own cookies. Then he got all bitchy about it and said he wanted to do it together. Well, if you wanted to do it together then maybe you'd have offered something more than telling me what to do.

Then tonight we had a conversation about women and how we are not listened to and how white men are the most privileged people on the planet. He agreed with me and followed it up with saying he'd rather be a woman because it's easier and failed to understand why if he thought that then he truly didn't agree with me.