The one thing that's better in my opinion is the sexy story. My ex would write out these sexy fantasies she had around five hundred words worth, like short erotic novels.

They turned me on way more than pictures (videos weren't really a thing back then (early msn times before smartphones and a potato webcam was the height of technology)), because they felt much more intimate. While visual media feels a bit like a performance, this felt raw and primal straight from her mind written down in text.

Maybe I'm just a word guy, but seriously, 10 years later I'm still thinking about those sexy stories. Almost even forgotten what she looks like, but those words are burned into my wank bank for all eternity.

Anyway I digress, great for you, pal!