Don't worry you're probably correct. A man with a high libido would be able to notice their woman has a high libido and it'd be going down one way or another. Men with high libidos don't ask their woman to initiate it. How can he not tell when you are ready and willing? I think that's his excuse for possibly not wanting to have sex.

You're accurate the person with high libido is usually not comfortable initiating it because they will most likely be turned down a high percentage of the time. However, to be sure you should just initiate sex each and everytime you want it.

Wear something sexy when you ask. To be honest you could come in with baggy sweats on looking raggedy as all hell and all you'd have to do is touch a man sexually with a high libido and he'll be game and consider it sexy. Literally anything having to do with sex will be sexy as hell! On the contrary if you already been turned down be prepared for rejection.